I love life. Love is the most powerful force in the Universe. I am learning that the hardships and tribulations I experienced in my life all revolved around my conception of love.
I sought love through my relationships with parents, siblings, friends, girlfriends, accomplishments, drugs, food, you name it, only to realize that the reason I couldn't find it in any of these places is because it literally is everywhere. All around us, through us, in us, everywhere.
We are surrounded by Love. And how much we connect with the healing, joyful, peaceful experience that is Love, is entirely up to us. That's the good news. The choice is ours.
To bring more light into your living room, it is not necessary to enlarge the Sun; simply open up the blinds. Let go. Stop resisting. Let love in.
The blinds represent our limited thinking about that which has no limit. It represents our superstitions. "Love ain't easy." "I'm not pretty enough to be loved." "If I was rich and famous, everyone would love me." "Love hurts."
Who told you these things? More importantly, since you are in charge of you, why did you let these ideas into your home, the mansion of your soul? Why have you closed the blinds, now peering through the slits of superstition, longing for Love?
I ask myself this same question I have put to you. Let this space be a safe space for all of us do discuss, share, and learn about this most fundamental issue.
All of our relationships reflect back to us our conception of love. I believe that is the blessing of other people. Romantic relationships are one of the most intimate and powerful ways in which we can learn and grow. In the mirror of our significant other we see, deep down, who we think we are; the good, the bad, and the ugly. The mirror is an opportunity for us to see what we are creating in our lives.
If you think Love ain't fair, that's what you will experience. If you think all men are dogs, that will be your world. You don't trust women? Perhaps you do not trust yourself. There are many ideas that lurk in our minds, as well as in the collective mind of our community that block the light from entering our lives. It's time to be honest, it's time to be frank, it's time to be real. You can't give what you don't know you have.
I am a son, a brother, a writer, an entrepreneur, a lover, a thinker, a child of the Most High.
I am not an expert, I am your fellow adventurer in this grand wow we call life. My mission is to experience Love in all its fullness and I promise I will share the insights I gather on my journey along the sunlit path. The more we realize the ever present Love, the brighter our lives will be, our families, our romantic relationships, our communities, the world.
Please share your questions and experiences so that I may serve you, as well as those who have come here to grow.
Allow me to help you help yourself.
What's on your mind fams :) ?