I am a goal-oriented, financially stable individual looking for an aggressive, intelligent, resourceful, family and goal-oriented yet submissive woman. I believe in opening the door, pulling out a chair, and placing myself between you and the road when walking on the street. I have spent over 22yrs in the military, now looking to change pace by working in the Cybersecurity arena. I have two bachelor degrees and developing a financial portfolio consisting of stocks, rental properties, day trading, buying and selling gold along with other commodities. I am looking for a poly relationship, long term with two women. I have no problem spoiling a woman as long as she doesn't take it for granted and thinks that I am her bank or ATM. I can cook, extremely neat, and comfortable doing outdoor activities as well as cuddle up on the couch. I don't believe in 50/50. That doesn't work in business nor would it work in a relationship. Somebody has to be in charge. I was groomed to be a leader, father, provider, and protector. Yes, the bills will be paid, and you will not want for anything. I am certainly not controlling, that means if you won't go out and hang with the girls, I will not stop you. If you are mine, you are grown enough to act accordingly.