i am looking for a long term relationship

My personal tastes, likes and dislikes etc. are pretty boring and typical. So, I hope that most people would describe me as engaging, smart, funny(I think it's my best part), and genuine. I do enjoy different and unconventional thinking and try always to be authentic and say what I truly feel without it being hurtful to others. I try to always be a good listener and I've worked very hard to be available and understanding because I don't think most men get that. As it relates to a loving relationship, I want to be passionate and strong (both physically and mentally) but in a balanced and giving way. I think my best part is that I am easy to be with and I enjoy most everything with the person I want to be with. I believe in instant connection and soulmatic love, but recognize the latter is very hard to find