So what's a girl gotta do to find a good man...really I'm not looking for much....self confidence, independence, swagger,honesty, belief in God, the knowledge that each day is a gift so you better be smiling~ must be diverse, the ability to be super cool and a bit nerdy, these qualities are important because it's hard being cool all the time. He must know that love is to be earned and that it's worth the energy it takes to make it beautiful. I have a lot to share with my king.... I am a photographer and LMT I work full time and go to school full time. I don't have a lot of time to give right now but I'm a firm believer in quality not quantity. Public service announcement: If you do not have a job or are receiving public assistance are living in or at your mothers or sisters crib, are taking any type of psychotropic medications or work ” sales” yet you never go to an office....move around you suck.