Relocated Nu Yaaarka Seeking that Perverbial Cali Love! Does it Exist?

I'm seeking to find that special woman to spend time alot of time with, someone with great chemistry and attraction; my time is way too valuable to waste. Alot of my time is focused with Traveling, my full time career and my Marketing, Music Works, & Management Business. I didn't join to be a "Serial Dater!” that's not why I signed up. But, alot of women are just interested with being EMAIL BUDDIES and/or PEN PALS & not contacting each other via telephone. A majority of women seeked to see how many dates they could book within a week or were trying to build their self esteem thru the site with men sending you emails telling them "Dang Guuurl~You Are Fine!" If you're unsure of what you seek on here, & can not devote/invest time to meet each other, Miss me. I'm looking for MORE than just a passing fancy. You hope to meet someone special only to find out it’s more of the same mediocre s(h)ituations regarding dating, you meet someone you think has the same outlooks/viewpoints that you are striving for then to find out that you invested a lot of time into a “Dud” & you’re back to square one It was all talk no action! If you're looking for a straight forward, funloving type of man, who loves dressing up for a Black Tie event(s) or dressing down, for casual times, then, I would read on! Who am I looking for? NO INTERNET/IM/Emailing back and forth, please! The first few correspondence via emails are cool, but, come on "Take a chance!"