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Grateful, easy-going soul seeking like-minded companion

I am a sincere, kind-hearted, and conscientious person. I am grateful for the world around me. I strive to treat others with fairness and respect. I am a Christian; passionate about serving God through acts of kindness and compassion toward others rather than the time spent in worship. My friends and family describe me as kind, loyal, thoughtful, and hardworking. My only child recently left home to start her own life. While I'll miss her, I'm content and do not desire more children. I love cosy home life, cooking and entertaining, nature and outdoor life, travelling and exploring new places. I also love cruising, especially to areas of geographical and geological interest. I admire natural beauty and women who are confident in their appearance without relying excessively on makeup and wigs. I am looking for a kind-hearted, easy-going companion between 40 and 72 to share life's experiences and see where things lead us. All my photos are relatively recent, taken between late 2023 and November 2024. Some of the photographs clearly show my face, both with and without my prescribed glasses. Thank you for reading my profile. I wish you the best of luck in your search and a happy future.

Appearance
Hair
Black
Eyes
Black
Physique
Average
Height
5' 10"   (178 cm)
Family Roots
Nigerian
Race
Black / African descent
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
Yes
Wants Kids
No
Religion
Christian
Education
Professional Degree
Occupation
Other
Income
I'll tell you later
Politics
Middle Of The Road
What languages do you speak?
English, Other
Favorite Music
Jazz, Blues, Latin, New Age, Alternative, Classical, Opera, Folk, Funk, R&B / Soul, Reggae
Favorites
Favorite Authors
Peter Singer, Stuart Hall, Camera Laye, Chinua Achebe, Charles Dickens, George Orwell, Peter Singer .... too many to mention.
Favorite Bands
Nnena Freelon, Björk, Enya, Mos Def, Fela, Robert Cray, BB King, Eric Clapton, Queen, Johnny Guitar Watson, BM, Ebenezer Obey, U-Roy, AC/DC ... too diverse and many to mention in my case.
Favorite Hangouts
South Bank, Coal Drops Yard, Kenwood House
Favorite Books
The Republic, The Bible, An African Child, The Road to Wigan Pier.
Favorite Cities
Ourika Valley, Dingle, Svolvær, Glencoe, Edinburgh, Alexandria-Argyll, Grantown-on-Spey, Vancouver BC, Pescadero Ca. Death Valley (CA/NV)
Favorite Country
Scotland
Favorite Drinks
Orange Juice & Malibu, Bacardi, Absolut (Mango), Red Wine, Angostura Bitters Mixer, Coffee, Assam Tea
Favorite Fast Foods
Poke (Poh-Kay), Sushi, Burritos, Pizza, Sandwiches.
Favorite Comedies
Trevor Noah, Jack Dee, Jimmy Carr, Lenny Henry, Ken Dodd, Pam Ayres, Jonathan Pie
Favorite Dramas
The Archers (Radio), Heartbeat, Shetland, Westway (BBC WS Radio)
Favorite News Anchor
I got more news analysis from Rachel Maddow (MSNBC-TRMS) & Jon Stewart (The Daily Show).
Favorite Plays
The Merchant of Venice
Favorite Politicians
Mia Mottley, Nana Akufo-Addo, Mary Robinson, José Mujica, Al Gore, Jimmy Carter, Thomas Sankara, Mandela, Willy Brandt, Olof Palme.
Favorite Sports Teams
Arsenal
Favorite Restaurants
Itsu. Pret A Manger, Chilango, Chili, ThaiSquare, Pizza Express, Scandic Syv Søstre, CPK, Enish
Favorite Songs At The Moment
Affirmation by GB, Corcovado by Astrud Gilberto, Soulful Strut by GW Jr, Jealous Kind by Joe Cocker, Many Rains Ago (Oluwa from Roots Soundtrack ) Qunicy J, Crisis by BM, Mercy Mercy Me by MG, Jóga by Björk, Flor de amor by Omara Portuondo, Beasts of No Nation by Fela, One Nation Under a Groove by Funkadelic ... too many.
Favorite Sports
Table Tennis, Tennis, Football, Smashing golf balls on driving range
Favorite Stocks
I would love to have some Alphabets, Tesla, Microsoft, Amazon, Apple, Meta, NVidia and Alibaba Shares
Favorite TV Comedies
The Masquerade, The UK & US 1970s and early 80s TV Soaps,
Favorite TV Dramas
Heartbeat / Shetland / Village Headmaster / Upstairs, Downstairs / Mad Men
Favorite TV News Sources
BBC Newsnight, MSNBC Rachel Maddow, The Daily Show - Jon Stewart, CBS News (during Dan Rather)
Favorite Foods
English Roast / Italian / Mexican / Nigerian / Thai / Vegetarian
Favorite Styles Of Music
Jazz / Blues / Highlife Genre / R&B / Soul / Rap / Reggae / Latin / Classical
Interests
Astronomy
I am fascinated by the mysteries and science of the universe. Curious and eager to learn more about our home planet (Gaia) and the universe.
Camping
I have had some wonderful experiences camping, hiking, and outdoor adventures. I absolutely loved the peace and tranquillity. It's a fantastic way to recharge and connect with nature. I'm eager to explore more outdoor life in the future. The only downside is the meticulous planning and preparation involved. From packing the right gear to prepping meals, every detail matters. Forgetting the washing liquid or the lighter for the cooker can ruin the whole experience.
Cars
My car is 'Hybrid' - free road tax and lot of savings on patrol.
Children
I have one adult daughter. I have no desire to have more children.
Comedy
Satire, Stand-Up, Radio-4 Shows like - Just a Minute, I'm Sorry I Haven't a Clue etc
Community Service
I volunteer with homeless charities and lobby the government for policies that promote development and social justice in developing countries.
Cooking
Cooking, drinks and good chat
Dancing
I'm allergic to dance floors.
Dating
I'm a bit hesitant with using online dating platforms due to the presence of scammers and time wasters. It is also a bit of a struggle to steer through profiles with hardly any substance. Sometimes, just photographs and a few ticks on the generic boxes. I believe a brief, honest introduction is not only courteous but also a more meaningful way to connect.
Dogs and Cats
Mild allergy to dog and cat hair.
Exercise
Pilates
Food
Italian / Japanese / Mexican / Nigerian / Thai / Vegetarian
Football
Arsenal, England and Super Falcons
Guns
Completely Against
Live Concerts
NNena Freelon, GB, Omara Portuondo, Astrid Gilberto, Björk, AC/DC
Math
Life essential / Sudoku
Medicine
I believe individual responsibility for healthy lifestyles is crucial. However, the state should fund access to primary care services and emergency medical support for all members of society regardless of their socioeconomic status or ability to pay.
Opera
Carmen, Barber of Savile
Philosophy
Practicality, Justice, Proportionality, Fairness, Compassion.
Photography
Seascape, Landscape. People & Places
Politics
Compassionate society where everyone feels valued and has the opportunity to succeed balance with good support systems for those in need and vulnerable.
Radio
BBC Radio 4, World Service, LBC
Reading
The Republic. The Bible.
Religion
Humanity First and Christianity
School
The state should provide high-quality primary education to all children, regardless of their socioeconomic background. The state should also fund advanced education and apprenticeships; accessible by abilities.
Soccer
Arsenal, England and Super Falcons
Technology
Google Keep and Gemini are my two favorite technology tools.
Theater
The Globe, Drayton Arms Theatre, Upstairs At The Gatehouse and more
Traveling
I aspire to travel the world, exploring every continent, including Antarctica.
Walking
Trent Park Hertfordshire, South Bank London, Regent’s Canal, Grand Union Canal
Personality
Adventurousness Somewhat Cautious
Confidence Somewhat Humble
Mood Average
Romance Average
Sociability Average
Lifestyle
Dress Average
Energy Average
Go Party Rarely
Religion Average
Neatness Somewhat Neat
Punctuality Often Early
Spending Average
Work Ethic Driven
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
Enjoying the simple joys of home with loved ones: delicious meals, refreshing drinks, shared laughter, and cherished companionship. Also, spending quality time together and exploring cultural experiences like going to theatre, concerts, public debates and other social/cultural events.
Describe your perfect weekend.
Exploring a new city, hiking through breathtaking landscapes, laughter and relaxation.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Yes, it is possible. It’s an electrifying spark that rarely ignites. Anyone can experience love at first sight if they look beyond the facade and onto a deeper level. However, true love, whether it is immediate or develops over time, requires more than just the utterance of 'I love you'.
How many kids would you like to have?
I think I am done with this department. I have one adult daughter.
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
How someone looks and presents themselves is essential, but personality and kindness outweigh physical attraction.
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
I would eradicate pain and suffering. Envision a world where people have complete control over their own destinies, and where access to opportunities is not limited by family background or geographic location.
What gets on your nerves?
Incivility, Cruelty and Self-Centre People
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Trust
What turns you off?
Rudeness, cruelty, and self-centeredness are major turn-off.
What turns you on?
Kindness, Compassion, Fairness and Consideration of others
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
Fully Retired. Achieved fulfilment, comfort, and joy with the right companion. Enjoying life, cruising, travelling and more. Volunteering and giving back.
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