Okay, I've been on here a couple of days and noticed a few things, so to not waste time... If you have no photo please don't bother. I'm not just about looks, but there has to be some attraction. If you're lying about your age, deny your children...NO THANK YOU. We're adults here, I expect honesty, so if you're on the 'I'll tell you later' tip then don't bother. If you've read all that and have not been put off then find out more below. Who knows maybe we'll get along? I'm straightforward, friendly ( so if you're the jealous type don't bother - been there done that!) I'm a humanitarian who loves connecting with others but don't assume I'm flighty as I'm loyal to a fault. I love to sing and dancing is my go to when I need cheering up. An avid movie fan I'll watch all types except horror. I'm not here to mess about. I don't drink or smoke, but love life and exploration. I recently changed careers, yes at 55! I believe we never stop learning and I'm ambitious still for my life. I'm kind, but can be exacting and have high standards. Just do you know, but pretty straight and easy. I may be guarded at first, TRUST is important to me and I believe the coming together of man and woman is spiritual as well as fun and physical. I know quite a bit about African history and honour my heritage and ancestors. Well, I think that should give a clear idea of who I am. Who are you?