Widower Seeking Monogamous LTR

I am seeking a serious, committed, monogamous relationship that will result in marriage. At my age I am being as open as possible to avoid wasting your time and my time. I want to know if you have overcome the grieving process for your divorce, or passing of your partner; and that you do not have any emotional baggage that are still lingering - because it will affect your acceptance of my love. So only contact me or respond if you are REALY READY for a serious monogamous relationship. PLEASE, NO SERIAL DATERS WHO HAVE PLENTY OF OTHER MALE "FRIENDS", or if you are still a card-carrying member of "The Players Club", and all you want to do is just have fun, and add yet another male friend to your collection, and move-on - I don't have time to waste on just "plutonic friendships".